Dating in your early to mid-twenties in TRINIDAD and TOBAGO .Nerve racking isn't it? (Part One)

Soooooo you're in your early twenties, 23-24years old. You're one of those who want to be in a relationship and believe you have your whole relationship plan laid out, date for two or 3 years, engaged by 27 first kid by 30. Yea it's all good, however, if you're like me here's the problems. 1) Opportunity 2)Personality 3)Ambition

Opportunity

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This is basically where exactly do you as a person who has a general idea of what you want, look for a like minded individual to date? Here are the options. 1) CLUB or Avenue 2)Boat ride 3)School 4)Online


CLUB or Avenue
Basically I would not suggest seeking your future soul mate at a location where he/she will be intoxicated, wining like a maniac, shouting in your ear over the club music. This is NEVER the place to gather meaningful connections. Clubs are like stress relieving  areas, and seriously do you want to tell you kids you meet mommy met daddy at the club?



BOAT RIDE
Hmm I've never been to a boat ride, however, im going to assume all the cons of the club apply here as well and added con is, being on a boat you're stuck with whoever may have blanked your advances, till at least the ride is over lol 

SCHOOL
This is a viable option for the university going.person. Lots of options to choose from.And you get to see your 'Target' out in the wild. In their almost natural habitat.

Online
Online option is TRICKY..Due to the advent of instagram and filters, person can edit their pictures to a certain extent that they are 'selling dreams' *cough* CATFISH*. Also you may click with the person on FB chat or twitter, but in person its like trying to converse with a department store mannequin.